Evaluating Relationships "The best relationship is not the one being shared in good times... But rather the one who has the staying power through rough times..." Because it is Valentine’s Day this week, I am going to take a special look at one of the most prevalent themes in The Perks of Being a Wallflower ; love and relationships. Now although there is romantic love there is also a big focus on love between Charlie’s family and friends, arguably just as important if not more than romanticism. Charlie is truly and utterly amazed at what these relationships came to mean to him and how each person differently influences his life, especially this newfound caring for friends. Using the quote above I will say how this relates to every character Charlie interacts with, as it really is a quote that I find most useful when reflecting on the journey we were taken on with the protagonist. I found the above quote on the internet about relationships and it does not h...